For God so loVed the world , that He gAve his onLy begottEn soN That whosoever believeth In Him should Not perish , but have Everlasting life." John 3:16
The key message from my church this week is that - today isn't the big day , 'love' is very 'chimp' ( in hokkien) ...a couple is put on challenge to test their love only after they get married, goin thru ups and downs & adjustments, no more lovey dovey sweet thingy during dating or courting time - the ideal case is they can grow their love together after marriage....
Mr Perfect + Ms Perfect = 'Wonderful Marriage' ---- but there is no Mr or Ms Perfect
Pastor emphasized 'Mr Right + Ms Realistic = Workable Marriage' ..... still a challenge for Bahija to find the Mr Right ... However, am I a Ms Realistic - i surely hope so, if not - may I have the courage to learn to be one - hehehehe